Things that case potential suitors away
Dear Lady
THESE ARE THINGS THAT CHASE POTENTIAL SUITORS AWAY
DEMANDING OR FORCING COMMITMENT TOO EARLY
So he has asked you out on a date or two, he still hasn't asked you to marry him
it's not even up to a month you guys became quiet close and all...
Aunty, calm down.
Even if you like him already,
Even if you can't wait to be in a relationship, or to be in a relationship with him.
Don't let him snif desperation around you.
As much as is possible, let the commitment start from him, so you will be sure he is interested in you, and not that he is taking advantage of your OBVIOUS interest in him.
And also, this can spook him and make him run away like a scared animal.
After 2 dates, you have used his picture to do your WhatsApp dp, even asking him when is he coming to see your parents, aunty, don't you fear God?
He is still making up his mind, he is still checking you out, and you should be doing the same too, not trying to hassle and force commitment out of him. Calm down, singlehood is not leprosy.
He hasn't asked you out, you saw him with another lady, and you are demanding an explanation, explanation of how the earth was formed or explanation of what exactly?
You traced the lady you saw him with to her facebook page, sent her a message to stay away from your Man, which Man?
Are you a serial killer?
Enjoy the journey, Enjoy the attention and budding friendship, try not to involve your heart or show it too early till you are sure of certain things (red flags, yellow flag, his character, compatibility etc)
Don't be that lady that when a guy will make the "mistake" of calling her more than once in a day, she have start to date him in her mind.
Aunty, you see love and Relationship, it Is sweeter and deeper when it is given time,
Real Relationships are like Beans, they require a little more time to cook, Relationship is not instant noodles... Be Patient
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